Life is a strange mass of twist and turns indeed. The most unexpected things happen, we meet unexpected people who turn our lives completly upside down, we make plans, dream big dreams but rarely see any of them become a reality. Instead life twists our fates in ways totaly unexpected, in ways that we never even imagined possible, takes us down long roads and winding paths that we never even dreamt of treading on merely beacuse we didnt know they existed! Life rarely goes the way we want..and its strange coz after all our lives are ours! we are the master not the slave! yet that is how it stands..try as we may we cannot fight against it..we can never fight against life! all we can do is accept what is thrown our way, accept the fact that our lives may not be going the exact way we want, accept that our dreams, our plans may not have been the best after all and most importantly make the best of everything you'v got! Be happy with what life gives you, the strange twists and turns, the unexpected U turns..they are all part of life and even though they may not be exactly what you want you will learn to live with it..its a matter of adjusting yourself, your dreams, your hopes...your life. It calls for a certain amount of compromise too but at the end of the day if you are happy even if that means that you have compromised on a lot of things, alot of dreams, alot of expectations.. i think that is all that is important! That you are happy:)
Life has always given me theunexpected! the good and the bad...the twists the turns have been endless! I never saw myself in the circumstances that im in today! I never imagined that this was how things would be...i had my own dreams, my own plans but fate had its own!..and this is how it is today and what more can i do but make the best out of it and be happy with what i have!
In the midst of all these unexpected twist and turns life also teaches us a very important lesson..that nothing is impossible! Things that may have at one point seemed totaly impossible, unachievable, sooner or later fall within our reach for us to grasp them and make the most of them! They may be different to what we expected but that doesnt change the fact that they were once things that we labelled as "impossible"!
Impossible is nothing....I'm glad that even without realizing this i made a very important decision to stick on...to continue to be friends with someone whom everyone said was not worth being friends with....who had nothing to offer me..at least nothing that met my expectations...yet i stuck on coz after all that is where my happiness lies and most importantly i stuck on coz sometimes life is not about holding on to people who have something to offer you....its about giving to people who you know can never return the favour! and what greater happiness is there in the world than that......
They say love conquers all....but i believe that where love fails friendship stands firm. Love may bind two souls forver but its friendship that holds the world together.
No comments:
Post a Comment